Love is considered as one of the most important pieces of life and unlike getting to choose one’s family, the relationship of love is chosen by oneself. Everybody thinks he or she is the right one. However, after a point of time, it is the personality & compatibility which decide the direction of the relationship. When something seems off, it is felt by the heart but no one can predict when and how breaking up will happen.
Here are some signs that he is going to break up with you.
1. EVERYTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU
When you feel and notice that you are not in his priority list anymore. He doesn’t care about you and about your life like he used to do earlier. His thinking has gone off the tangent, especially, in terms of future plans. He is not interested in sharing his life’s major and critical decisions like changing of his job and about financial planning, etc. as you have become an invisible identity in his life.
2. EFFORTS TO BRING SPARKS IS ONE-SIDED
A relationship works if both the lovebirds in it are willing and putting their heart & soul into it. Otherwise, it will become a graveyard of one’s desires. If he shows no interest in spending time together with you like dating, shopping, etc. then that just means he has lost his interests in you.
3. CONFRONTATION IS AVOIDED
You both don’t fight anymore, rather, leave it away from searching for a solution mutually. It is like you are avoiding small as well as major issues and kicking them under the carpet. Ultimately, it will work like termites in a relationship and convert a strong relation into a casual one.
4. HE IS PAINTING THE TOWN RED WITHOUT YOU
It is good roaming and travelling with friends. However, if it happens frequently, it means something is being hidden intentionally and he is following an escape route. It is possible that he is wandering to find options.
5. HE SOUNDS ILLOGICAL AND BAD MOUTH
He always feels irritated with your behaviour and he has started to dislike your preferences and opinions. In a nutshell, all his gestures express annoyance and dislikes for you and your behaviour. You have devolved into his personal punching bag and any interest in your feeling has gone out of the window.
6. EMOTIONS & SOFT FEELING HAS CRAWLED TO HALT
You can’t remember the last time that you both shared any beautiful moment together. There is not only a communication gap between you both but also a sense of bitterness in the feeling. Holding a hand and dreaming together has become a far fetched idea.
7. MORE BAD DAYS THAN GOOD ONES
His feeling to be with you as a life partner has started to or has vanished completely. This reflects in his reactions & behaviour which ultimately affects your well being. You have noticed that both of you have started to disagree on the same decisions and it depicts your differences in every aspect of your life. Whether it is for money, health or family etc. the cordial and vibrant essence of love seems to be dried up with the time.
So, It is better to come out of this relationship when you observe the above signs in your partner.