The music video ‘Bada Pachtaoge’ starring ‘Uri: The Surgical Strike’ actor Vicky Kaushal and sizzling hot actress Nora Fatehi has deeply touched the heart of all our heart-broken people out there. The beautiful song is written and composed by Jaani and sung by everyone’s favourite Arijit Singh.
‘Bada Pachtaoge’ is all related to ‘betrayal’ in a relationship. In this song, Nora, acting as the wife of Vicky is cheating on him with her co-actor Prabh Uppal. The video showcases how Nora steps out of her house making some excuse to Vicky. He follows his wife and sees her getting intimate with another man, Prabh Uppal. Vicky returns back home and the video further shows him dealing with the situation.
The song by now has been viewed by more than 288 Million people and is loved by the audience very much. So today we thought to bring out some takeaways we all can have from this song and such situation.
1. Never Cheat on Your Partner
Well, this is the very basic and obvious thing we should learn from the song. Talking over a matter is much better than cheating on your lover just to satisfy your need and want. Your partner might be fully devoted to you with all his/her selfless love expecting same in return. If you think your relation isn’t working, just speak it up and communicate but don’t cheat, this makes your other half depressed and emotionally unstable and you might regret this later on.
2. Don’t Choose Crime
Relationship ending up on a bad note is way better than killing/harming the other person. The guilt of taking away your love’s life will be so high that it will horrify you for the rest of your life. You may end up behind the bars for this crime, whereas you have the option to live a happy life with another one if you just leave your cheating partner. Ending up your relationship with a cheater is better than walking together with a bitterness.
Communication with your partner is much needed because we all know it is the only best tool to make a relationship healthy and working successfully. Cheating isn’t the best option over talking. Why we say this? Because talking to each other would diminish all the misunderstandings and doubts, and bring you both even closer or might just make you distant, as in break apart.
Now, you may think how we can overcome this situation of heartbreak and move on forgetting everything we had with the person. Well don’t worry, we have some ways that would definitely help you overcome this troublesome situations in your life.
4. Talk to your Family and Friends –
This way will help you distract you from recalling the sweet-bitter memories you shared with your ex. Friends and family are the ones who always back us for our decision if we are right. It’s better to discuss the problems with them rather than feeling low, sad and depressed. Talk and talk and let out all your love to them, tell them things you want to do and try enjoying with them to forget everything else.
5. Remember, It was just a Phase –
Remember the fact that everything happens for a reason. Not everybody you meet in life stays forever, all have a purpose in your life. And guess what, the person you broke up with was there to give you happiness for a time being and to make you strong later on. Take it in the way that it was a phase in your life which just completed off and think about your near future and plan for it, instead of thinking about your past. Remembering past only brings hurt and pain in such situations.
6. Talk to Yourself –
The best thing you can do to move on is by talking to your innerself. Introspect yourself and question yourself, was your ex the person more important than you yourself? Is your ex more important to worry about than your future? Well, you will definitely get the answers soothing and calming you down. Stand in front of a mirror, look into your eyes and talk, say whatever you want, exhale out all what you feel and make your heart and mind light.
7. Focus on Something Else –
Try to look out on things that give you happiness and mental satisfaction. Shift your focus from that person and concentrate on other things. Make yourself believe that it’s better to have nobody than to have someone who is half present with you or doesn’t want to be there.
We hope you find someone who is true to you and is loyal about their feelings for you. And if you have broken someone’s heart then we say “Bada Pachtaoge” because you have lost someone who loved you deeply and selflessly. Remember, it is very difficult to get someone who loves you without any complain and selflessly.