A happy relationship between you two is a result of trust, loyalty and selfless love towards each other. Though, the dating scenario at the present generation considers the factor of physical contact necessary for a healthy relationship. Yes, the concept of having ‘sex’ while in relationship is considered as one more way to keep your beloved one happy and attracted towards you that results in a healthy relationship between you two. Intimacy between you two helps you know more about your beloved one, bringing you both closer to each other and obviously keeps you both attracted towards each other physically and emotionally.
It is assumed that the ‘sex-less’ couples end up breaking as they can’t be happy together or they are unable to give what the other wants. Is that true? Do people end up breaking apart due to lack of physical intimacy? Can lack of Intimacy and sex really distance the couple? The answer to these questions is Yes.
You might have the most passionate experience of having sex if you have it with your beloved and meaningful partner. Although, absence of it might or might not affect your relationship, as it depends on the sexual desires of both of you. The lack of intimacy might distract your beloved one from you, not always true, but that is a fact. While having intimate relationship keeps your love intact, observations state.
In a long distance relationship where meeting each other is something far to think of, having sex is beyond something to happen. Yet there are many healthy long distance relationships which see no boundaries.
This fact might convince us to accept the fact that being intimate with our partner is not the only way for healthy, happy and successful relationship. On the contrary, we can’t even deny the fact that people engaged in sexually active relationship helps themselves to know their partner better which in long term seems beneficial.
How Sex helps a couple in keeping their relationship healthy?
To keep the fire of love and passion burning in your relationship, it is good to have an intimate experience. Although we all consider sex as a physical activity but it has an emotional aspect too. As we release an oxytocin hormone while having sex with our partner which helps us love our partner more and more.
Being sexually active helps us in reducing stress level also. Instead of opting for medicines and drug to release your stress, engaging yourself in a heated sex session would help you release stress and keep you healthy, suggest science experts.
Also, having sex or not relies on the consent of both the partners engaged in a relationship. Rejection of being intimate although affects your relationship as the ego is hurt or desire are left unfulfilled of one partner. Which distracts them from you and they might even seek someone else to fulfil what they need and want. Otherwise, some of the understanding partners will wait for your consent and permission for the intimacy session.
So to conclude, the overall perspective of sex in a relationship is significant but depends on the conscience of both the partners. It can be said that sex helps you and your partner to come closer, know each other better, and feel emotionally attached. But it is not a mandatory thing to do for a healthy relationship, as many people do not prefer getting intimate during dating period. The denial can be the reason of insecurity or unwillingness of the person.