Being in a relationship means like being in heaven with your lovebird, unless your fate ends you up in a trap of a wrong one. We tend to ignore some of major concerns by terming it as negligible concerns. However, out of these habits, we sometimes end up being a victim of frauds which results into monetary loss. We don’t say that all the relationships break due to this reason, however, statistics available through sources hint at frauds by ill-ambitious partners in the relationship. Now, the question which comes to our mind is how will one know that his/her partner is in a relationship with him/her for monetary benefits. Here are 6 signs that will help you identify if your partner is in a relationship with you for monetary benefits
1. Expects you to pay on Date
Once you make an initiative to make payments for your date, next time onwards, chances are that your partner will expect you to pay for the future dates as well. Moreover, chances are surprisingly high that future date will be more expensive. So test your partner on this parameter to gaze if he/she is looking out for your dependency on dating expenses.
2. Always cry for money
He/she will make stories that money can solve his/her problems or save his/her life. You being a good human being or a good partner, try to solve their problems by lending some money but they will never return your money giving the excuses of their ever growing problems. Even though you are in a need of money, they will never take initiatives to return your money by crying over their financial problems, they will most likely give you excuses and escape from the situation.
3. Argue a lot on money
Their conversation will always start on money and end on money. They will tend to compromise on things that they like, want to eat and lifestyle they want to live due to money. They will never understand your perspective whether you are able to buy your favourite things, whether you have sufficient money in your pocket but always look at it from their perspective.
4. They are always proud of your fancy and expensive things
They might be happy with your achievements and success, but they will be more proud of your expensive cars, bike and house, most importantly, proud of your bank digit numbers. You may often hear them boasting about your assets to gain attention. There may be nothing wrong in doing so, however, too much of anything is bad.
5. They dont want to earn
They will always be dependent on you. They will never make an effort to earn for both of you or even for themselves. Initially, you may be happy that you are feeding, buying clothes and doing house hold stuffs for them, but on the other hand, the dependence on your pay cheque may become the reason for them to never hunt for any job.
6. They will be more demanding
This sign will depend on your initial treatment, if you pose yourself as a very parental partner, which means to be very concerned about everything be it money or anything, then chances are that your greedy partner may take advantage of this. They will be demanding on things to buy expensive stuffs, when you try to explain on it, they will argue with you and threaten to break-up.