When you read or hear ‘Bold and Modern girlfriend’, what comes to your mind? Maybe you will picture someone wearing a certain types of clothes. Yes, we all tend to relate some particular words with dressing style; especially when it comes to women. What we fail to understand is that a particular gender cannot be classified as bold or modern. We are all humans and we all evolve with time. It is the time that has evaluated and progressed to be more advanced, bold and modern. And just like any other human today, women are subject to these changes too.
We cannot neglect the fact that India is not really a very Femino-centric country. Until decades ago, women were known to only play the roles of a daughter, mother, wife, sister and grandmother. Completely unaware of the role of a girlfriend or even a best friend for that matter. But just because we look at things from a certain perspective, it is not going to stop progress and changes from happening. Changes are something that comes with time and we cannot stop time as change is inevitable.
With time women have become educated and above all, they are now aware of the world and what it offers them. Girls are becoming bolder and modern because they are growing with time. If you ask me, today women are a perfect mixture of cultural values and wisdom that comes with education. While girls are still taught importance of family and cultural values, they are also educated and inspired by freedom, independence and self-respect.
Let us look at 7 benefits of dating today’s modern and bold girls
1. She is Straight and Communicative
Today, girls aren’t going to cry and sulk if they have problems in their relationships. They believe in being problem solvers. They choose to be up straight about what they feel and expect the same from you. They will resolve their issues with effective communication.
2. No Insecurity Issues
A little bit of jealousy can be a fun part in every relationship, but only until it does not turn out to be major insecurity issues. Girls today are head strong and thoughtful and leave no room for insecurity.
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3. She will never give up her hopes
Even when your world is crushing down on you and you are about to fall apart, she will still stand by your side and catch you when you fall. She believes in building a new world with you. So, if you are going through a difficult time, don’t worry, you are not alone because your girl isn’t going anywhere.
4. She is Passionate
Be it loving her family or her work, she does it passionately. And she is just as passionate about her relationships as about other things. She is going to love you with all that she has. She will even stand up against the whole world if it takes just to be with you.
5. She is Supportive
Living in a society where even today the perspective of showing a girl’s beauty is viewing her from under a red dupatta, we often miss out on the beauty of what girls today have become. Today, a girl works hard to create her own identity, so that she can share all the responsibilities equally. Be it financial matters or making decisions around the house, you will not have to carry it all on your shoulders.
6. She gives you plenty of space to breathe
Being as smart as they are, girls today know that to build something, you need to have space and the same goes for relationships too. She understands the preciousness of all the other relations that revolve around you. She understands that you need to have your own life and some quality time with friends. For she too has a little group she calls her second family.
7. She knows the value of your dreams
She knows what your dreams mean to you as she too has some of her own dreams. Hence, she motivates you and encourages you to complete your dreams and achieve your goals. She tags along with you on your journey to your dreams, and even sets you free if necessary.
We often fail to understand that a girl is a human too and has all the same needs and desires that a guy may have. We need to stop looking at girls from this old bioscope of values and boundaries for a girl is everything beyond that frame.