Myths, myths and myths! Aren’t there a lot of myths surrounding us? It’s like we just can’t get out of them. Especially when it comes to sex. So many myths, such less education. It isn’t surprising when you hear people become sexperts and start giving you advice. Honestly, don’t listen to everything that people tell you cause there’s a lot out there which are just myths. Myths about your virginity, especially if you are a woman. We at Ajanta News will give you the top 5 myths about a woman’s virginity that you can instantly cast in the bin.
1. An Intact Hymen Is the Only Sign of Virginity
This is the most common one. People constantly tell you that Hymen is an indication of virginity. There are honestly various reasons your hymen could break which do not involve sex. Exercising, cycling, etc are reasons enough to break your hymen before you indulge into sex. So it’s nothing to worry about when you have sex for the first time and there’s no hymen to break.
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2. It Bleeds and is very Painful
Although there is some discomfort when you have sex the first time, it doesn’t have to be a crippling pain. While some women find it painful, some don’t and there are reasons for it. Mostly, it is because of the nervousness and anxiety you have which makes your vagina tense and tighten. It makes penetration more difficult and hence it results into pain. It also depends on how aroused you are. Apart from this, every woman doesn’t bleed. Some do and some don’t.
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3. Your Vagina gets Loosen When you Lose your Virginity
This is so not true. Nothing except natural childbirth and old age could loosen your vagina. Otherwise, I can definitely vouch for you to not believe in this myth. The vagina doesn’t loose up even after a lot of years of sex. So relax.
4. You can only Lose your Virginity Once
Again not true, especially because the mere breaking of a hymen doesn’t indicate a breaking of virginity. In that case, a lot of us would’ve lost it while cycling. The belief that virginity is lost once encourages people in slut shaming. A lot of sexperts suggest that you can experience a lot of new things in sex. So the idea that you will engage in a lot of firsts in your lifetime is an indication that losing your virginity only once is wrong at many levels.
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5. Losing your virginity after marriage is the right way
Do not fall for this. We live in the 21st century and people are done setting rules for your sexual choices as a woman. Take your lead in life and decide for yourself on when you want to lose it and who you want to lose it with. Gather all the information necessary for safe sex and don’t care about the judgements from other people.