When it comes to flirting, less is more. If done right, it can help you win your dream girl but if you overdo it you might come off as a desperate creep. Flirting with girls is a tricky business and different girls have different preferences so you need to keep her taste and response in mind when you’re trying to impress her, but here are 5 fool proof ways to proceed.
1) BE CONFIDENT BUT NOT COCKY
There’s a fine line between holding your ground and being straight up mean. That line holds your future with the girl. Don’t look scared to approach her, break the ice with something funny or picking up on something interesting about her like a tattoo or an accessory.
2) BE SWEET BUT DON’T LOOK DESPERATE
Playing hard to get is something that works best on guys, if you do that with a girl she’ll become impossible to get.
Compliment her on things other than her looks and then ease into appreciating her beauty if she looks pleased.
Show your interest in her but always leave her wanting for more. Don’t reply to every single smiley she sends, but do let her know she’s on your mind with witty texts once in a while, this brings me to the most important point; texting.
3) GET YOUR TEXTING GAME ON POINT
Girls love texting. If you want your name to have a heart smiley in her contacts, try to limit them in your messages. Keep your initial conversations fun and slightly flirty, only if she’s responding well. You might also have to start using emojis you’ve never even seen before.
4) DRESS TO IMPRESS
This one is a no brainer, groom yourself well, update your wardrobe and smell nice. Try to avoid baggy clothes or shabby looks unless you’re a 15 year old misfit.
5) PLAN THE PERFECT FIRST DATE
After about a week of holding back a little, it’s time to make her feel special.
Plan your first date the old fashioned way. Ask her out and pick her up on time for your date. Netflix and chill doesn’t count, try planning something that gives you both a chance to dress up a little because if it goes well she’s probably going to remember it for a long time, it’s only fair you both look dapper in her picture.