Every man wants to be great in bed but according to a research, nearly half of the men in America don’t know how to satisfy or please his mate in bed. A whooping 45% of men who have sex will finish in two minutes or less (a fact that hasn’t changed in the 70+ years since Kinsey’s research) and even if you slow down and last longer, there are plenty of other ways you are sabotaging your sex life. We thought of highlighting some of the major mistakes men make during intimacy. Here are 6 things men do wrong or presume weird during/before intimacy that women are texting each other the next morning…or while you are in the bathroom.
1. Whine about using a Condom
Men do not like using condoms, but they should know and understand about the different risks of not using a condom during a sexual intercourse. The risks of not using a condom during an intercourse can cause several STD’s and unwanted pregnancy too. So, every man must get over the myth of “just feels better without it” and use condom before having sexual intercourse.
2. Assume Girls dislike Sex during period
I am not sure where guys got this idea that we don’t ever want to have sex when we have our period, but the fact lies far ahead of this myth. We may say “Oh, by the way, I am on my period,”, it doesn’t necessarily mean that we are drawing a line from going ahead for sex. It may sometime mean that you have to be extra careful while going ahead for it as it’s too ‘slippery’ and unhygienic. So boys, end this myth and understand your partner when she gives this signal next time.
3. Thinking that if a girl gets close to you, she is ready to have Sex with you
I don’t know why but this is one of the weirdest things that almost all men are mistaken about intimacy. If a girl likes talking to you and makes physical touch with you, it doesn’t really mean that she is willing to have sex with you. She may be comfortable touching you and feels you are mature enough to understand the gentle physical touch is general while communication. Grow up Guys! And wait for the right time. If it is meant to happen, it will happen.
4. Initiate some Kinky and ‘stupid stuff’ without Consent
Men should always ask his mate first before trying ‘something new’. When a man tries to be dominant or aggressive in bed and you haven’t expressly said, “Pin my hands behind my head” before he did it. Not asking before doing such potentially super-terrifying things is so stupid, it hurts!
5. Assume that Girls finish as soon as Guys do
Thinking that it’s done and you have successfully satisfied your mate just because you are ‘done and satisfied’, is a totally wrong assumption. A woman needs and expects more from a man. So, every man should erase this presumption that she is satisfied just when you are! Start slow, maintain the pace and gaze if your girl has reached the orgasm to take her for the climax along with you, is the best way to show that you care for her satisfaction too.
6. Ignore foreplay together
Foreplay is the best part of sex and almost every woman really enjoys this thing. However, men just ignore foreplay sometimes as if it was not in the syllabus of the Intimacy. Men must understand that the idea of foreplay can really satisfy his mate and hence, they should not ignore the idea of foreplay. After all, igniting both side completely before the climax is the art not every man masters in.
So guys, grow up and be a man with our guide. Discuss this with your girl and find out if she nods her yes to these things before essentially believing our suggestions. Keep these things on your mind next time you are heading for an intimacy and make your sex life interesting!