‘What is on a girl’s mind?’, ‘what does a woman actually like?’ etc. have been some of the standard questions that revolve around almost all the men. A woman has always been a most complicated “mystery” for men. In a world where people believe that ‘For everyone is made someone’, it is quite unfair to generalize people on a gender under topics like what girls hate. For every individual is unique and have their own likes and dislikes.
But be it men or women, what we all have in common is that, we all have this need to love and to be loved in return. A wise man once said, “Women are meant to be loved, not to be understood” I believe there is nothing such as what girls like or what they hate, if anything there are ways of showing your love towards them. So, here we bring to you six ways of loving a woman.
In other words, behaving superior or being self-righteous. Show casing you’re self-superior while you constantly look down at everything your girl does, is no way of loving a girl. Today, girls are independent and confident about what they are. Girls want to a person who can grow old with them, fall with them and stand by them. So, being a preacher and telling her do’s and don’ts is not going to work my dear. Rather try and be supportive. Correcting her once in a while when she really is doing things wrong is good but try doing it without showing yourself as a genius preacher.
If you truly love your girl, holding prejudices against women is not going to help. Misogynist is an anti-feminist and even sexist or supremacist. You cannot always keep saying hateful things to women around the one you love. Because the first question she is going to ask is “then why do you even love me, or are even around me?” and you will not have a good answer for it. Today as feminism trends, being a misogynist is not going to be tolerated so you either solve all your issues with yourself or best don’t be anywhere around a woman.
3. Too Judgemental
Being judgmental is not only going to make you lose your girl but people around you too are going to stay off-door. Having a hypercritical attitude does not only offend people but it restricts you from knowing truly what and how a person is. It limits the process of actually getting to know each other. And you are most likely to lose your girl just because you were so busy making opinions about her and judging her that you couldn’t really know what blissful mystery she was.
4. Being Ill-Mannered
Dear men, being boorish, discourteous and impolite are some of the qualities that not only girls but almost everyone hates. No one would like to be around a someone who simply is only concerned with himself and negligent towards others feelings. For example a girl won’t really want to be around a person who only keeps bragging about his past conquests or pays least importance to listen to what she is telling him.
5. Being Arrogant
Having an egoistic and full of your-self condescending attitude is actually rude. No girl will ever want to be with a person who thinks highly of himself that he actually ill-treats others. If you really love your girl, do things that will make you great in her eyes.
6. Too Dependent
Women look at the one they love as an independent and strong pillar. In a relationship, both the partners go through a phase when they need to lean on each other and tender their strongest support. But being too needy and insecure about almost everything can make your partner feel pressured. Leaning on your girl constantly for everything can make her doubt your capability of taking her responsibility. For it is she who has been bearing the burden of your insecurities and needs on her shoulders all the time. Once in a while try and ask her about the difficulties she is facing, give her the space to breathe and lean on you a little.
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